A family full of happiness and prosperity is the heaven on earth. Everyone imagines such a family. Every person wishes to have a happy and prosperous family. The arrangement of the house should be so perfect that all the members get due respect and affection, lots of love and blessings. It is very important for every person to be mutually cooperative in the creation of such a family, otherwise sometimes even good families get destroyed due to domestic conflicts and ideological differences. Therefore, for the happiness of the family, understanding and respect for each other’s tender feelings and sympathies should be done. There is an unbreakable bond in all the relationships of the family, respecting the dignity of which is the moral duty of every member. By hurting others for oneself and neglecting each other, this delicate bond of relationship can also be broken.
To strengthen the economic condition, the family economic policy should be such that there is no need to make budget every month. This facility can be easily available from the family, through mutual harmony. This problem should be seriously considered. It is the responsibility of the elders of the family to keep their income for the whole family. Similarly, younger members should give respect to all elders, so that elders can be proud of them. There should be love, harmony and cooperation among the family. Relying on the market for small tasks can lead to differences, so everyone should be cooperative as far as possible, working together. The relation of husband and wife is like the backbone in the family, in which there is a relationship of utmost tenderness.
Therefore, where the behavior of the wife is loving, then the husband should also fulfill her proper needs, respecting her sensitivities. Husband and wife should make each other aware of every aspect of their life; Because secrecy is not good in this sacred relationship. Similarly, the relationship between parents, brother and sister should also be respected and respected under dignity. In this way, the joy of festivals and other family events increases with love and there is an atmosphere of happiness in the family at all times. The most important thing is that the relationship of love should never be broken; Because if it breaks once, it does not join again and even if it joins, then there remains a distance in it.
If it is a matter of newly married relationship, then there are more chances of getting knot in it; Because in the beginning it is a bit raw. The knots of the relationship may not be visible outside, but they remain in the mind. This delicate relationship can be strengthened by our understanding. If we also want to lay the foundation of such a strong relationship, then we have to introspect and leave some habits from the very early days of marriage.
Sometimes our habits act as a rift in a good relationship. If we keep awareness of those habits in time, then we can save our love relationship from sinking. Some wives have a habit that they cook food with great love, but while preparing food, they also serve the grievances of the day with it – which upsets the husband’s mind.
Create a loving energy
Above all, the wife also wants the husband to appreciate the food prepared by her. Ayurveda says that the same food is beneficial for our body, which we can take in peace. Food eaten in an environment of complaint or stress is not healthy, but gives rise to problems like gas, acidity and – indigestion.
For good health, we should enjoy serving and eating food in peace. Another time should be fixed for the things of your mind. Husband and wife are not considered as separate but one unit. There are many such mutual things between the two, which it is absolutely not appropriate to mention to any third person. Doing so jeopardizes the credibility of the relationship. Mutual talk between husband and wife should not go out. But some girls are so emotionally attached to their mother, sister-in-law or a friend that they tell everything to them.
Husband and wife’s trust in each other is the most important and essential quality of married life. Like the thread of love, the thread of trust also cannot be reconnected when it is broken. So it should be kept alive forever. A relationship called marriage is meaningful only when one ‘You’ and one ‘I’ become ‘we’ by binding in it. Then there is nothing ‘yours’ or ‘mine’ in them. Whatever happens is ‘ours’.
A marriage in which this does not happen, should be understood that it is not a marriage, it is just a compromise. Understanding this, we have to decide whether we have to lay the foundation of our marriage on love, trust and dedication or on the selfish thinking of ‘Tere Mere’. Evidence of sympathy, feeling and understanding should increase in the family. With this understanding, internal problems do not arise in the family and the family becomes heaven; Where one gets the experience of happiness, peace and happiness.