WAKE Up and drive true self development .
Life is the name of turning them into opportunities while facing challenges, stepping out of the comfort zone and accepting the challenges of life, and moving towards self-development is the art of living. While living life, facing your fears, and overcoming them, is the name of a desired meaningful-successful life. Life is the name of self-conquest by conquering small weaknesses. Life is the name of creating the desired creation while facing the circumstances and opportunities. Certainly not that simple a task. For this, we have to get down in practice. One has to have the courage to face every challenge. Fear has to be faced. Normally no one wants to get out of their comfort zone. It is such a comfortable state where you feel at ease and does not want to come out of it. One feels safe in it, but the tragedies associated with it are no less. In its scope, a person has the illusion of happiness, peace, and security. In a small circle, a person is a victim of overconfidence; Because he is always doing the same thing. So there is less danger and one feels full of energy, as confined people experience in life. There is only one way left in life.
Life does not develop to its full potential amid these perceived advantages in a comfort zone. Skill can be developed only within a limited scope. In this, but at the same time there is no danger, and there is no great reward, which the person subconsciously hopes for. With this, a lack of self-confidence and a negative attitude toward life develop. When there is no full development of life, there is a sense of frustration and disappointment in living life and there is also the pain of not being able to fully bloom the buds of life’s possibilities. In the language of psychology, a person feels deprived of the destination of self-actualization and stays away from the realization of perfection. To get out of this, first of all, it is necessary to experience how the comfort zone becomes a hindrance in its all-around development. Has happened. Only after this experience, did the efforts to get out of it start. As long as one is satisfied with the attraction of the comfort zone, the question of getting out of it does not arise, but when the need for self-improvement is realized on this basis after introspection, then the efforts begin. Some useful steps that can be taken in this direction are discussed here.
First of all decide your goal, which you have not yet achieved and which you want to accomplish, the most important thing is to think and create what you want, it is easy to write but difficult in practical. . So first of all take small steps in this direction. Make a list of tasks that you find difficult. Now choose some of these tasks every day. In the context of health, such experiments can be done with diet. If dietary habits have deteriorated, then necessary changes and improvements can also be made in relation to diet. It is possible to create thoughts only through diet, as will be the diet, so will be the thoughts. If heavy food predominates in the diet, then you can include healthy, sattvic simple food in it. Similarly, in relation to physical labor and exercise, where laziness is gaining its place, then try to add something new there and can take it to a new level, which makes the body more strong and healthy. You can add a new dimension to your professional life success by working on new skills necessary for a successful life, which increase your confidence and quality of life. Every week you can add a book to your study, new meditation, new physical activity or work on a new topic, so that you can come out of the trap of bad thoughts in your mind. You can set regular timings for your favorite books.
Positive self talk .
If life is in depression, ask yourself deep questions and challenge yourself. Incorporate some new creative activities into your daily routine. Take a few moments to meditate. Start by doing small things. Along with the Art of Self Realization, you can also combine a diary and some creative writing exercises. Like drawing. Start talking to a stranger every day to grow your emotional growth and social circle. Practice speaking on stage. It is known that 85% of people are afraid of speaking on stage. If you are also in this category, then take small and bold steps to come out of it. You can record your video while speaking. Review yourself after seeing this and do the necessary exercises for improvement. Practice witnessing your stress and anger and feel yourself stepping out of your comfort zone. Reward yourself when you succeed.
In this way, try to come out of it by breaking your comfort zone. Challenge the beliefs that keep you stuck in your comfort zone. Take the bold step of stepping out with an honest assessment and feel free to move past where you are stuck. With this, give appropriate and desired praise to others. Find a community that interests you and become a part of it. By joining this, your creative talent will get a proper place and the doors will also open to getting out of your comfort zone easily. Sharing the successful experiences of your life with others can add a new encouraging dimension to this context. In this way, the process of recovering from the comfort zone is completed, which has four successive stages –
- 1. Comfort zone
- 2. Fear zone
- 3. Learning zone
- 4. Growth zone
Fear is faced in the first phase, and facing it in the second phase is completed with necessary learning, concrete learning from such experience results in self-development. With all this comes new confidence, enthusiasm, and life satisfaction. In this way, self-development happens only when you get out of your comfort zone. Its path goes only through tension, dilemma, and discomfort. Every day something has to be done, which scares you, and makes you uncomfortable. The path of self-creation is paved by facing fear again and again. Without going through this process, words like improvement, achievement, and success lose their meaning and seem hollow. In this way, today’s labor, effort, and sweat define your successful, meaningful life tomorrow, and a successful and meaningful life is started by getting out of your comfort zone.